Saturday, November 14, 2009

Butterflied Love

Butterflied Love

Watch me fly away, give me life like a butterf...Image by Te55 via Flickr



The babe in your arms
Touches the butterfly on your chest.
And thinks,
One day, I too, will fly.
Until then the world is bounded by our reach;
The butterfly happily chained around your neck,
As both a memory and a dream.
One day, we all will fly.
Together.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Can You Live Without Love?

On my Facebook "being IN LOVE" fan page, I asked a question that had been on my mind of late:

Once you know what it's like to be loved, could you live without it?

Now, it's pretty easy to assume what most of the answers to this question will be like, but what I enjoyed more were the reasons for the answers.
  • 10860 total fans
  • 40 Comments
  • 19 Likes
  • No (80%), Yes (7%), Yes, but painful (13%)
The most common theme in the comments was about the addictive nature of love. Like a drug, they said, once you've had it there is nothing but a void, an emptiness, in life without it. Fans said they would be unable to breathe, that they would be off-balance, and that the purpose of life is love.

Great comments. Inspiring. Powerful stuff.

I invite you to join us, and to participate, in our great fan page about "being IN LOVE!"

Enjoy your weekend! *hugs*

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Art Pencil to Quill

I sat down with two former-teachers-turned-friends this week to get caught up on life. With one of them, I’d reconnected several months prior when he’d volunteered to help me with my writing projects; the other I’d not seen for twenty years. Back in grade school, one was my creative writing instructor and the other my art instructor—the right-brained mentors of my childhood and teenage years.

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“How did you end up writing? And, what are you writing: a novel, poetry?” the artistic one asked.

As I began to tell her the story, the analogies and images formed in my mind that would make it a grand story, piecing themselves together as an on-the-spot-aspiring-author was slowly learning to do. “I followed my artistic passion into the study of architecture, but found that I wanted my structures to be more sculptural than practical. I believed that I wouldn't get the chance to push the boundaries of design when I entered the real world and college was the best place to do so. But, my instructors kept asking me if I’d designed to code. A common question like ‘Does this space have the required number of toilets?’ would send me into a debate about what we should be focused on in our education. So, I wrote an opinion-editorial for the school newspaper that compared our education to being herded like cattle. It caught the department’s attention, and that of my current term’s instructor.”

“I can tell that you’re not happy with architecture,” he said. “So, I don’t want you to work on the project that I assign the rest of the class this term, I just want you to write. I don’t care what you write, just write about your thoughts, feelings… write essays, poetry, whatever you wish, and we’ll sit down and talk about it each week.”

“It was at that point that I laid down the art pencil and picked up the quill pen,” I told my friends and former teachers. “My architecture instructor was a former dean of the department, and through his network of contacts, he arranged interviews with people in a multitude of professions, then asked me to speak with them about their passion and their choice of employment.” As I spoke, my hands gestured wildly, an art that I’d learned complemented that of storytelling. “That process opened my eyes to the things that I should focus on during these important, formative years of my life; years when I was deciding what I wanted to be when I grew up.”

“Such as?” they asked.

“Education, to me, is about learning the vocabulary that you will use once you enter your profession. The ‘how-to’ will be a style that is taught to you by your first employer to make sure that you are doing things their way. They weren’t going to make me an architect, they were simply teaching me the language so that I could be trained as one once I entered the real world. If anything, what they taught me was the reality of that world, and my disinterest in continuing to pursue it.”

“How did you get from there to here? That’s got to be a pretty interesting path,” the artistic one said. “By the way, you were a brilliant artist, but waaaay too mechanical. I knew that you’d never do anything in the fine arts.”

“Odd, isn’t it? I was too mechanical an artist and too sculptural an architect.” We all smiled. “I started studying business and found that my right-brained expertise excelled in group projects and organizational behavior experiments. There was a great combination of logic and creativity inside of me. I could see all of the options, ones that the rest of the class couldn’t see, and bend the rules to my advantage. I ended up in technology marketing for years. Basically, finding ways to tell consumers a story about products and services so that they would see the emotional need and take the desired action.”

“So, once he picked up the quill, he never put it down again,” said the writing one.

“Exactly,” I confirmed. “Press releases, ad copy, web site copy, you name it and I wrote it for a decade. During the day, I wrote for my employer, but at night at wrote for myself. I have a stack of poetry and random thoughts that’s twice as tall as this novel,” I said as I picked up the spiral bound manuscript.

“That’s good,” my editor said, nodding his head. An air of excitement appeared on his face noting the feeling that he’d always had about the discovery process.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

37/52:Something Wicked This Way Comes

37/52, Something Wicked This Way Comes, by Ray Bradbury, 5/5 Stars

Drips with visual imagery. So laden with it that you are often unsure of the source... characters paint the scenery with wild, yet explicit, imagination. I admit, there are times when it is hard to keep up or understand what's going on, but I love the attention to the senses that Bradbury used to write this book. If I have one criticism, it's that I *did* get lost in the imagery at times. And though I'm one to think "out there," the author still lost me with his analogies, whether due to them being historically out-dated (the book was published in 1962), or by simply being too far "out there." I'm surprised that I'd never read this book before, and I now consider it to be one of my all-time favorites. I'll look forward to reading it again so that I may more deeply connect with the picture that Bradbury paints.

GOAL: 52 books in 52 weeks!

Book #36 = "The Illustrated Man" by Ray Bradbury, 2/5 Stars
Book #35 = "The Old Man and the Sea" by Ernest Hemingway, 3/5 Stars
Book #34 = "Now & Forever" by Ray Bradbury, 4/5 Stars
Book #33 = "Coincidence" by David Ambrose, 2/5 Stars
Book #32 = "The Discreet Charm of Charlie Monk" by David Ambrose, 2/5 Stars
Book #31 = "Fish" by Lundin, Paul, Christensen, & Blanchard, 4/5 Stars
Book #30 = "Purple Cow" by Seth Godin, 3/5 Stars
Book #29 = "The System's Bitch" by John Wright, 3/5 Stars
Book #28 = "Twitter Power" by Joel Comm, 3/5 Stars
Book #27 = "The Cluetrain Manifesto" by LLSW, 3/5 Stars

Book #26 = "What Kind of World Do You Want?" by Jim Lord, 5/5 Stars
Book #25 = "The New Rules of Marketing & PR" by David Meerman Scott, 4/5 Stars
Book #24 = "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell, 3/5 Stars
Book #23 = "Lisey's Story" by Stephen King, 1/5 Stars
Book #22 = "My Favorite Place on Earth" by Jerry Camarillo Dunn, 4/5 Stars
Book #21 = "Wisdom 2.0" by Soren Gordhamer, 4/5 Stars
Book #20 = "Oath Of Gold" by Elizabeth Moon, 5/5 Stars
Book #19 = "The Age Of Engage" by Denise Shiffman, 3/5 Stars
Book #18 = "What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20" by Tina Seelig, 4/5 Stars
Book #17 = "Animal Farm" by George Orwell, 4/5 Stars
Book #16 = "Divided Allegiance" by Elizabeth Moon, 3/5 Stars
Book #15 = "The Curious Incident of the Dog..." by Mark Haddon, 2/5 Stars
Book #14 = "The Sheepfarmer's Daughter" by Elizabeth Moon, 3.5/5 Stars
Book #13 = "Love Is The Killer App" by Tim Sanders, 4/5 Stars
Book #12 = "Fight Club" by Chuck Palahniuk, 4.5/5 Stars
Book #11 = "The Time Traveler's Wife" by Audrey Niffenegger, 5/5 Stars
Book #10 = "The Finder" by Colin Harrison, 3.5/5 Stars
Book #9 = "Veronika Decides To Die" by Paulo Coelho, 1/5 Stars
Book #8 = "By The River Piedra I Sat Down & Wept" by Paulo Coelho, 3/5 Stars
Book #7 = "Stiff" by Mary Roach, 2/5 Stars
Book #6 = "Love in the Time of Cholera" by Gabriel Garcia-Marquez, 1/5 Stars
Book #5 = "The Road" by Cormac McCarthy, 3/5 Stars
Book #4 = "Eleven Minutes" by Paulo Coelho, 2/5 Stars
Book #3 = "The Good Guy" by Dean Koontz, 3/5 Stars
Book #2 = "My Ishmael" by Dan Quinn, 2/5 Stars
Book #1 = "The Zahir" by Paulo Coelho, 3.5/5 Stars


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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

My Day (Edited)

I'm meeting my editor this afternoon for lunch. Our time together will be more about catching up than about work, for we're having lunch with one of my favorite grade school teachers (well, technically, my editor is also one of my favorite grade school teachers). So, our lunch is one that will take place in the way-back machine...

Eraser worshipImage by fd via Flickr


However, he and I decided that we'd start by editing some of my poetry so that we can market it. I gathered up these smaller writings (my 150,000-word novel waits in the wings), and found that I've got an expandable file folder full of poetry.

So, I suppose that I'll give him a choice:
  • 3" stack of poetry
  • 2" stack of novel
Hmmmmmm.